Conflicts and the enemies within our Mind When you have a fight or disagreement with your partner, this is likely to upset you. The pain can be very intense. When this pain is expressed unconstructively it leaves you and your partner feeling injured and powerless. Partners will then often fall into a cycle of attack/defend …
Watch this beautiful demonstration of how a moment of frustration turns not into a fight but closeness when partners dare to talk the heart, dare to express vulnerability.
Good vulnerability is fundamentally generous, it takes the first step of disclosure … so others feel safe to unburden themselves and disclose…” – says Alain De botton in this beautiful animation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJsJ96yyVk8 Importance of sharing needs and feelings …… Demonstration of how to share vulnerability …… How couples repair disconnection (11min) ……
An description of the video or some background information: Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus leo. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qy5A8dVYU3k&t=12s Dan Gilbert Asks, Why Are We Happy? …… The Happy Secret to Better Work …… Hard choices ……
Alain de Botton explains why partners are stuck and how to communicate candidly about sex. To desensitize your embarrassment or shame around sex it is essential to watch many videos like this… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSs2dXDf1Zs The challenge of keeping the desire in marriage …… Fix your sex starved marriage …… How couples repair disconnection (11min) ……
Big decisions can be agonizingly difficult. But that’s because we think about them the wrong way, says philosopher Ruth Chang. She offers a powerful new framework for shaping who we truly are. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GQZuzIdeQQ The Key to Success? Grit …… The Power of Vulnerability …… Science of Stress Physiology Emotions Fight Fight ……
Why do men avoid marriage? Watch Helen Smith explaining why men give up on marriage.Unexpected advocacy for men! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BoXQf2f2Yxo&feature=youtu.behttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3BaQtPy_DQg&feature=youtu.be How couples repair disconnection (11min) …… “Men on Strike” …… Laws of Love (13min) ……
The most important lesson from 83,000 brain scans | Daniel Amen https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=esPRsT-lmw8 The Opportunity of Adversity …… Shame and Empathy …… Science of Stress Physiology Emotions Fight Fight ……
When Trump calls certain aspects of reality “Fake News”, he knows something that we often refuse to acknowledge: what ultimately matters is not what really happened, but how you tell it. The power is not in the facts, but rather, with whomsoever controls the narrative. What makes us vulnerable to narratives? Our psyche is desperate …
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