Hagai "Guy" Avisar

The challenge of keeping the desire in marriage

In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sa0RUmGTCYY Laws of Love (13min) …… Connection, bonding and safety affect …

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ON BEING WISE – 2

Part 2 We learned in Part 1 of ‘On Being Wise’ that wisdom is ultimately about how you understand human nature, the problems humans deal with and their solutions. This implies the need to understand first the rules that govern you and then the rules that govern human beings and societies in general. Yes, it …

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Listening to shame

Brene Brown talks about Shame, how toxic it can be, how we are affected by it and how Empathy is the antidote to shame. (20 min) Being Now as key to happiness …… The Curious Mind …… Longest ever study on what makes a good life ……

Laws of Love

If you know the laws of love you know how to make it last. Researcher Sue Johnson – world expert on Attachment and Love –  explains how we can have the loving lasting relationships we all long for. And it makes perfect Love Sense. https://youtu.be/e2C9yUVdQjg Connection, bonding and safety affect your sex life (14min) …… Growing …

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