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Importance of sharing needs and feelings

Good vulnerability is fundamentally generous, it takes the first step of disclosure … so others feel safe to unburden themselves and disclose…” – says Alain De botton in this beautiful animation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJsJ96yyVk8 Importance of sharing needs and feelings …… Demonstration of how to share vulnerability …… How couples repair disconnection (11min) ……

Being Now as key to happiness

An description of the video or some background information: Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus leo. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qy5A8dVYU3k&t=12s Dan Gilbert Asks, Why Are We Happy? …… The Happy Secret to Better Work …… Hard choices ……

Fix your sex starved marriage

Alain de Botton explains why partners are stuck and how to communicate candidly about sex. To desensitize your embarrassment or shame around sex it is essential to watch many videos like this… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSs2dXDf1Zs The challenge of keeping the desire in marriage …… Fix your sex starved marriage …… How couples repair disconnection (11min) ……

Hard choices

Big decisions can be agonizingly difficult. But that’s because we think about them the wrong way, says philosopher Ruth Chang. She offers a powerful new framework for shaping who we truly are. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GQZuzIdeQQ The Key to Success? Grit …… The Power of Vulnerability …… Science of Stress Physiology Emotions Fight Fight ……

“Men on Strike”

Why do men avoid marriage? Watch Helen Smith explaining why men give up on marriage.Unexpected advocacy for men!  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BoXQf2f2Yxo&feature=youtu.behttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3BaQtPy_DQg&feature=youtu.be How couples repair disconnection (11min) …… “Men on Strike” …… Laws of Love (13min) ……

Lessons from brain scans

The most important lesson from 83,000 brain scans | Daniel Amen https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=esPRsT-lmw8 The Opportunity of Adversity …… Shame and Empathy …… Science of Stress Physiology Emotions Fight Fight ……

The challenge of keeping the desire in marriage

In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sa0RUmGTCYY Laws of Love (13min) …… Connection, bonding and safety affect …

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Listening to shame

Brene Brown talks about Shame, how toxic it can be, how we are affected by it and how Empathy is the antidote to shame. (20 min) Being Now as key to happiness …… The Curious Mind …… Longest ever study on what makes a good life ……