Conflicts and the enemies within our Mind When you have a fight or disagreement with your partner, this is likely to upset you. The pain can be very intense. When this pain is expressed unconstructively it leaves you and your partner feeling injured and powerless. Partners will then often fall into a cycle of attack/defend …
Watch this beautiful demonstration of how a moment of frustration turns not into a fight but closeness when partners dare to talk the heart, dare to express vulnerability.
Good vulnerability is fundamentally generous, it takes the first step of disclosure … so others feel safe to unburden themselves and disclose…” – says Alain De botton in this beautiful animation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJsJ96yyVk8 Importance of sharing needs and feelings …… Demonstration of how to share vulnerability …… How couples repair disconnection (11min) ……
Alain de Botton explains why partners are stuck and how to communicate candidly about sex. To desensitize your embarrassment or shame around sex it is essential to watch many videos like this… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSs2dXDf1Zs The challenge of keeping the desire in marriage …… Fix your sex starved marriage …… How couples repair disconnection (11min) ……
Why do men avoid marriage? Watch Helen Smith explaining why men give up on marriage.Unexpected advocacy for men! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BoXQf2f2Yxo&feature=youtu.behttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3BaQtPy_DQg&feature=youtu.be How couples repair disconnection (11min) …… “Men on Strike” …… Laws of Love (13min) ……
In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sa0RUmGTCYY Laws of Love (13min) …… Connection, bonding and safety affect …
Connection, bonding and safety affect your sex-life Sue Johnson explains how level of security and bonding affect couple’s sex life Demonstration of how to share vulnerability …… The challenge of keeping the desire in marriage …… Importance of sharing needs and feelings ……
How couples repair disconnection Two experts explain how the drama of mother-baby bond continues to impact our adult love life. In this segment you will see impact of loss of connection and how to repair it. Demonstration of how to share vulnerability …… Fix your sex starved marriage …… Connection, bonding and safety affect your …
If you know the laws of love you know how to make it last. Researcher Sue Johnson – world expert on Attachment and Love – explains how we can have the loving lasting relationships we all long for. And it makes perfect Love Sense. https://youtu.be/e2C9yUVdQjg Connection, bonding and safety affect your sex life (14min) …… Growing …
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